The Capable You
The Capable You is more than just a book, it’s a blueprint for transforming your mindset, skills, and daily habits to become a stronger, more capable version of yourself. Whether you want to sharpen your situational awareness, build resilience, or develop the confidence to take on life’s challenges, this book provides practical strategies drawn from real-world experience. It’s designed to push you beyond your comfort zone, helping you embrace adaptability, discipline, and self-reliance. The Capable You empowers you to take control, make smarter decisions, and live with purpose, because true capability is the key to a life of freedom, confidence, and success.
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My Story
I was never an exceptional student, nor was I naturally gifted in any particular field. Growing up in the 70s and 80s, my career options were limited. After scraping through school with a handful of GCSEs, I found myself with two choices, working in a supermarket or a builders merchant. I chose the latter, lifting 50kg cement bags as a skinny teenager. It was tough, but it gave me financial freedom and a sense of responsibility.
Like many, I followed the expected path, work, relationships, family, mortgage. Life was steady but uninspiring. I existed for others, feeling needed yet unchallenged. But then, a spark of interest in security work changed everything. I trained as a door supervisor, which led to a bodyguard course. What started as curiosity became a career.
By 2004, I left my 9-to-5 to pursue specialist security. I became a Private Investigator and Close Protection Operator, working high-profile assignments in London. I trained others, managed operations, and built a successful business. Yet, the demands were relentless, and by 2018, I faced a choice, compromise or stand my ground. I chose integrity, which led to a shift in direction.
Now, I prioritize balance. I still work in Private Investigation and Security but focus on self-improvement, learning new skills, and guiding others. Life is about adapting, growing, and taking control. My journey has taught me that capability is earned, not given. I share my experiences to help others break free from limitations and carve their own paths.
I was average. I improved. I became needed. I am capable.
Nick Howe
Author, Creator & Collector, Explorer, Investigator and Innovative Individual.
The function of man is to live.
Not to exist.
I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them.
I shall use my time.
